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Ms. Kempner, Have you heard of this situation involving large penises? A woman friend whom emigrated from the Congo 13 years ago, said that women in her African village advised her and her friends to stay away from men with large penises. Because penises will stretch out their vaginas and then if the man leaves her, future men will feel their vagina is now too loose to give the desired pleasure.

In modern porn, it is a common trope that the well-endowed black man will stretch and enlargen the woman's vagina, but I guess I assumed it would shrink back down if the woman stopped having intercourse with large penises.

In college sex classes (circa 1979) and from female comedians, and in NYT articles on pornographic movies, I heard about the downsides to a woman of having intercourse with a large penis--mostly pain and discomfort. I had not heard it could affect a woman's sexual marketability in the future if the large-organed man leaves her. Have you heard of this?

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